| Deb Corbeil
is one half of Canada's Adventure Couple. She has just finished
traveling with her husband, Dave through Nepal, Sri Lanka
and India where she climbed to Mount Everest Base Camp, joined
a pilgrimage to Adams Peak and participated in Holi, India's
most colourful festival. Deb is quick to tell you that travelling
in south India is not as extreme as the northern part of the
country and it definitely was far easier there. You can read
more about this couple's adventures at http://theplanetd.com/
So you want
to go to India? It's been calling you for years and you're
feeling ready to explore this fascinating, thrilling yet frustrating
country. I'm writing this article while on my first trip to
Northern India. For someone travelling from North America
the culture shock you feel will be intense and you'll need
time to acclimatize yourself.
I know you'll
find what I have to say harsh but don't be put off by it.
It's meant to prepare you so that the 'shock' in your culture
shock will not be as intense as mine was. That said, this
is an experience you'll savour for the rest of your life.
I would not have missed the markets in Delhi, the splendour
of the Taj Mahal, Agra's Red Fort, the holy city of Varanasi,
Rajasthan's camel market, and the beautiful people who live
here for anything in the world.
Safety...
Safety
is an issue in any country and India is no exception.
Most of the time you won’t have any problems,
however there will be occasions when you will face some
annoyances. In India many local women don’t travel
alone period, especially in the more rural areas. Many
men don’t respect a woman traveling solo and will
feel that this gives them license to harass you. That
doesn’t mean that a western woman can’t
travel solo, just be smart and follow your judgment.
Solutions that have worked
for me:
(1) Don’t
travel alone at night if you can help it. Hire a taxi
or rickshaw to take you to your destination safely.
Try to hook up with other travelers if you feel uncomfortable.
(2) Ignore
the men that harass you. Don’t even look at them
or if you do, give a very quick shake of the head with
a stern look on your face and keep walking. Don’t
smile or give them any reason to pursue talking to you.
If you look like you have been traveling in India for
a while, you will get less hassle.
(3) Don’t
accept a hotel room that doesn’t lock from the
inside. It should have some sort of deadbolt from the
inside. Also, bring your own combination lock as many
places don’t offer locks. You can lock your door
from the outside while you are away sightseeing and
have peace of mind about your belongings.
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Lack
of Privacy...
Accept
it. You will be an attraction to many local people.
It can be a little unnerving having people stare at
you. Men especially will stare at you for long periods
of time without smiling, saying anything, or even caring
that they are making you uncomfortable. It seems rude,
but it is what they do. Others may ask you for photographs,
want to touch you and constantly want to converse with
you. With the invention of cell phones, the tables have
now turned and you will have just as many locals wanting
to take your photo as you wanting to take theirs.
Solutions that have worked
for me:
(1) Ignore
the stares. There is nothing you can do about it and
although it may seem rude to you, it's just what they
do. It's harmless.
(2) Have
fun and accept that you are going to be a minor celebrity.
Most people just want to know where you are from, shake
your hands, stand beside you and take home a memory
of your meeting through photographs. The majority of
the time it is innocent.
(3) Use
your better judgment though. If a group of male kids
or men are too aggressive, just give them a strong look
and move on.
(4) Don’t
lash out, they will just laugh at you and enjoy the
reaction that they got out of you.
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Toilets...
It
is the age-old struggle for travelers of the world.
Especially women. You won’t be finding too many
shining porcelain thrones in India. Most times you won’t
even want to enter the stall due to the filth and stench
in the public restrooms. But sometimes it can’t
be helped when you stop for a quick break in the middle
of the night on a long haul sleeper bus. Here, you may
be faced with a squat toilet that won’t flush
and hasn’t seen a scrub brush for decades.
Solutions that have worked
for me:
(1) Carry
a wad of toilet paper with you. It has two uses, one
is obvious since you will never be supplied with toilet
paper, but the other reason is to cover your nose while
doing your business to keep you from gagging.
(2) Loose
clothing is a must; even a long skirt can make things
go more smoothly. Bunch everything up in one hand to
keep it from dragging on the floor and never bring anything
with you into the toilet. A scarf can easily fall on
the floor or worse into the toilet and you don’t
want your spare change or wallet falling out of your
pocket and into that mess. Keep it all in a bag, zipped
up and securely slung over your shoulder.
(3) Work
on those quad muscles before leaving your country because
squat toilets mean just that -- you squat.
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Hygiene...
India
is dirty, that is a fact. You can count on just about
everything having some nasty bacteria on it. Light switches
in your hotel room could be be dirty -- doorknobs, walls,
anything that you touch is questionable. Remember, you
eat with your hands in India and you don’t want
to be transferring all of that to your stomach. Delhi
Belly didn’t get its name by accident.
Solutions that have worked
for me:
(1) Carry
handy wipes at all times. While they supply soap at
most restaurants, many don’t and often you only
wash with cold water. A good antibacterial wipe or hand
sanitizer can come to your rescue.
(2) Bring
along nail clippers to keep your nails short so that
bacteria won’t grow under them. Don’t be
afraid to wash your hands as often as possible.
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