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Fiji
I wore a long, loose cotton dress, black with flowers on it, with mid-length sleeves. It was attractive, cool, comfortable, met all the local standards of decency, did not show the dirt, was easy to wash. It could be removed to reveal shorts and tank top when hiking beyond the towns and villages. It rolled up and stashed easily in my day pack and could be donned again when the next village came in sight. It was the most versatile piece of clothing I packed for my whole trip. Visiting Fiji? Always wear a sarong where ever you go...especially if you go
visiting villages and small communities. The villages are the best places
to get the ultimate Fiji-time experience, and you must get permission
from the village chief to visit his people. If you have bare legs, you
may not be allowed to stay; and that would be horrible! I loved Fiji!
A lot of the Fijian women wear longer skirts most often, especially
at the markets. There is no real way not to stick out in Fiji, but at
the markets, tell them you're a local or they will pester you to buy
their crafts. Beautiful Country and Beautiful People. I loved every
second of Fiji. |
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| Finland Finns dress stylishly
but conservatively. I traveled to Finland during Feb. and March and
it gets really cold so dress for the weather -- down coat, hat, gloves
and long johns. Waterproof, non-slip boots are a must, as it snows constantly.
Out of concern for the environment, Finland does not use rock salt when
it snows. |
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| France No skin! The more conservative you dress the stronger you appear. For example, when I took my first trip to Paris alone I wore a nice pair of kakhis, a crew neck sweater and a nice, but comfortable pair of shoes. Also, my carryon baggage was neat and even beyond clothing ... if I ever felt that I was being looked at I did not smile a lot. I kept my head high and shoulders back. There is nothing that will repel someone more than the realization that a woman is self assured and knows what she's doing. If they get the impression that you'd tell them to knock off if they approached you then you're going to feel much more secure! Wear black and lots of it. Hanging out in Paris in January is cold
and can be extremely damp. Pack a long black skirt, a couple of pairs
of black tights, a big black sweater (a few colored heavy scarves),
black jeans, shirts and or turtle necks to layer under the sweater,
a hat and you're off. To guard against pick pockets, don't carry a purse,
but rather wear a money belt and tuck it underneath your clothes. There's
nothing nicer than having free hands to take pictures, etc. Bring a
pair of black boots (low heel) that you'd be able to walk about five
miles in. But please, don't ever wear tennis shoes. I travelled to Paris in December - a scarf is a must! Everyone wears
a scarf, they can be any color and any material and when you get home
you won't know how you ever got by without one in the past. Younger
people do wear sneakers occasionally, but European sneakers are not
the same as U.S. - they look a lot more like bowling shoes. Plenty of
high heeled boots and leather pants on women of EVERY age. Remember,
to look truly like an American tourist, just wear a baseball cap and
hang a camera around your neck (this works for whatever country you're
in). Avoid wearing tennis shoes (Nikes etc.) because it tells everyone you're
a tourist. Black shoes are a necessity if you want to go into most nightclubs.
Also, bring along black pants and try to avoid jeans. Black is very
common and works well for traveling (small stains don't show up). Wear a tame knee length skirt, flat shoes amd a tame top suitable
for the weather. French women are by American standards always dressed up. If you don't
wear black high heeled shoes and a scarf (or sweater) around your neck,
you'll be spotted as an American from a mile away...not that that's
a bad thing, just something to keep in mind. The Parisian women dress with style and if you don't approximate a
little bit of it yourself, you'll feel under dressed and dowdy. Bring
along some scarves, costume jewelry and forget your jeans and white
athletic shoes. I've discovered a wonderful fabric that drapes beautifully
without being revealing. It is lightweight and doesn't wrinkle and comes
in several dark colors--brown, black, purple, navy. I bought my pieces
at Chico's and they call it "scrunchy". It is also available as Supplex
through TravelSmith.
In Paris, in order not to be perceived with disdain, leave
your baseball cap & sneakers in the hotel room. Save them for tramping
around Roman sites away from the city.
When visiting Paris, "dress up" more than you would in most other places.
This involves a creative use of scarves, costume jewelry, decent looking
shoes and watching what the Parisian women wear. This may be the one city
in which you abandon jeans, athletic shoes and warm-up suits for a more
attractive form of dress. In France, as in most of Europe, women "of a certain age" dress their age, i.e., a skirt or slacks (no blue jeans or shorts) and proper shoes (no running shoes). By "of a certain age" I mean everybody over around 30. If you want to look French, use black as your basic color and wear a scarf somewhere on your body (around your neck, your hair, your waist, or tied to your purse). Looking as if you belong protects you from "draguers" on the street who sometimes follow foreign-looking women, asking them for a match or for directions to some well-known site. Do not think that if you dress down (in other words, look unattractive and grubby) it will protect you from the advances of men. Dress poorly and you will only attract a lower class of weirdo! Frenchwomen like to make the most of their appearance. If you do, you will blend in.
One last tip: don't smile too much. Frenchwomen don't; it's considered a
come-on. Nobody in Paris ever wears sweatpants. I think it is the only city in the world in which if you are a young woman, you must wear a tight miniskirt in order NOT to be stared at. People here actually wear leather pants just to go to the grocery
store. Yes, of course you can wear fashionable jeans in Paris, and sneakers
as well. However, make sure your sneakers are what I call "sophisticated
city sneakers", not big white sneakers devoted to sport. Those
big ones are a no-no here. Also, as in every big city be careful about
your purse. Always keep it in front of you, and don't keep too much
money in the same place. I've seen so many kids in a crowded subway
trying to open tourist's bags! Take care and have fun in Paris. I lived in France for a year. Many French women put a great deal of
time and energy into their appearance. They can spend hours on personal
grooming -- hair, nails, less is more make-up -- and deciding what to
wear. Even when they dress casually, French women give their clothing
a great deal of thought. They are taught from an early age to make the
most of what they have. If you want to blend in but don't want to wear
black I would recommend going for an "English Country" classic
look -- neutral blazers, jackets, suits, blouses, skirts, dress pants,
raincoats -- with special attention to the details. The easiest accent
is the neck scarf. And I did see women wearing blue jeans in France
-- at museums, on the weekends, walking their beloved dogs -- even women
of a certain age -- but the jeans were crisply ironed and worn with
tweed blazers, blouses and high heeled-boots. Paris is one of the most sophisticated cities I have ever traveled
to. French women of all ages know the art of dressing in a very fashionable
manner. Having been there a couple of times, I recommend wearing some
cute scarves (around your waist, in your hair, or around your neck)
and stylish, yet comfortable clothing. I recommend wearing palazzo pants
or knit trousers (New York & Company's city knit collection is great
because it is very classy, easy to pack, and wrinkle-free) along with
nice tops or blouses. This type of clothing served me very well in Paris
and other cities in European countries. Keep in mind that when in Paris
and other places throughout France for that matter, you will do a lot
of walking. Look for shoes that you will feel comfortable walking in
all day long. With that said, don't break in new shoes when going to
Paris for the first time. Allow yourself some time to break them in
at home before leaving on your trip. The good news about shoes is that
you don't have to sacrifice style for comfort. I found a really cute
pair of shoes that I wore while in France and I didn't have any problems
at all with my feet. Jeans are great to wear as well, but don't wear
faded soccer mom jeans with the tapered legs! Jeans with a bootcut or
flare leg are good. No-no's include white sneakers, wearing fanny packs
around your waist and wearing cameras around your neck. You will be
spotted as an American tourist right away! I recommend taking along
a larger purse. Before leaving for my trip to Paris, I found a purse
that was large enough to hold my wallet, passport, camera, and travel-sized
umbrella without the purse being too big and feeling too heavy. Just
be sure to guard your purse carefully, as Paris is known for having
many pickpockets in tourist areas and on the metro. By exercising caution,
you won't have any problems. Have a wonderful time in France and be
careful! |
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