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Tunisia A large scarf that can double as a shawl. The scarf is respectful in Islamic cultures and also is more comfortable in desert regions where the sun is harsh and the shade is cool. I found a skirt to be really comfortable in the heat of summer in
North Africa during my Peace Corps days. A skirt was more culturally
acceptable, more sun protective than shorts and cooler than pants. It
also made using squat toilets a little easier and was definitely more
modest when no bathroom facilities were available. I suggest packing cotton slacks and plain (no writing on them) cotton
T-shirts which cover your upper arms as well as a lightweight mid-calf
cotton skirt(which kept me just as cool as if I'd been wearing shorts)
are good choices. Although European women can and do wear shorts and
bathe topless on the beaches, I didn't so as to show respect for the
Tunisian women in this Muslim country. This North African country has
a desert climate so a wide-brimmed hat and sunglasses are a must! Headscarves
aren't necessary as the Mosques are off limits to women -- only men
who practice Islam can enter. I was recently in Tunis and did not have any problems other than the
usual intimidation of being one of the few women amongst lots of men.
I wore baggy jeans and a mid-thigh length nylon jacket all the time.
This seemed acceptable as I was allowed into the Great Mosque without
having to put on one of the "coverings" provided at the entrance. For
the most part, Tunisian women do not wear the haik and dress more like
Europeans. (However, old women still wear the haik.) Turkey I'm Turkish, but have been living in the States for some years. When visiting
big cities like Istanbul, Ankara, Izmir, pretend you're visiting New York
City. Would you walk Park Ave wearing short shorts and a tight tank top?
If you would feel uncomfortable doing that, don't do so in Istanbul. Feel
free to wear jeans, tight skirts, capris, short-sleeved, form-fitting
shirts. Take care of your hair and make up, and get a pedicure. Turkish
women love shoes, and they like to go for pedicures. If visiting resorts
on the Aegean and the Mediterranean, you can wear just about anything
but again, use your common sense. In Central Turkey or the Black Sea coast,
wear a long, loose, at least mid-calf skirt and a long, loose top that
has sleeves at least down to your elbows. Also invest in a pretty Turkish
scarf. They are light-weight cotton, come in many colors, and are decorated
with lovely 'oya' or embroidery. Hang it over your shoulder, use it to
cover your hair when you enter a mosque anywhere in the country. I take
mine everywhere--it's light, attractive and practical. On the street, wear very modest clothing. Turkey is predominantly Muslim,
so cover up. Even in warm weather when you're wearing sleeveless tops,
carry a lightweight shawl or scarf or sweater to put over your bare shoulders
in those places where you'll suddenly feel all eyes are upon you. In the
evenings, Turkish women really dress up, but again bare arms and plunging
necklines are seldom seen as they're covered in public (even in the dining
rooms of the grandest 5-star hotels) with lightweight evening scarves
or shawls. Istanbul is a wonderful city to wear all those gorgeous silk
shawls and pashminas you've collected in your other travels (or buy them
there). Fabulous shopping! In the winter months slacks with silk long johns (top & bottom) along with a lightweight pullover top and a jacket will carry you everywhere in Turkey. We wore long-sleeved shirts and khaki pants all through Turkey. Anything
that shows cleavage and skirts will garner you more attention than you
want, even if the outfit would be tame for the states. The long-sleeved
outfits were also good for touring. We had no troubles other than the
typical attention paid to women travellers in this outfit. Also, ankle-length
skirts are another modest choice that didn't seem to cause difficulties.
When I went to Turkey (travelling largely along the Aegean Coast),
I took the conservative approach in my packing. But I ended up buying
tank tops in towns like Cesme and Bodrum because I didn't feel like
I fit in dressed so conservatively. I seemed to draw more attention
by covering up than I did by wearing tank tops. But I always carried
a button-down to throw over my tanks, just in case. When in Turkey and you start off the beaten track of the east coast
be prepared for many stares and unwanted behaviour. Dark coloured big
head scarves are a must and darker coloured long skirts and long sleeve
shirts, covering up as much of the body will help to no end. Turkey's modest standard of dressing is often ignored in the 'touristy'
areas, where simply a bikini and sarong is worn by sunbathers doing
a bit of shopping. These women are subjected to the usual whistles and
unwanted attention. Long sleeveless cotton dresses are perfect as they
are cool, while respecting the local culture. Outside the tourist regions,
it is advisable to cover up as much as possible. A fake wedding ring
can work wonders for getting rid of any attention, even for girls of
15/16 like myself. While there, I wore nothing shorter than capri pants and only sleeveless
shirts that are not tank style. Although you may see young Turkish girls
wearing tight pants and tank tops, they are local and you are not. No
sense drawing extra attention to yourself when there are so many people
out there ready to take advantage of you or distract your attention
so they can pick your pocket. Leave the jewelry and watches in the hotel
or on the cruise ship. Wear a travel wallet under your clothing. P.S.
Never go into any mosques uninvited or that are not open to the public.
In Turkey you will need a sarong or long pants to enter the mosques.
This is required out of respect. In Turkey, always bring a couple of large scarves along with you. In
more conservative villages, covering your hair may be a smart move.
Or if you are wearing a skimpy top, you can use a scarf to compensate.
(I once wore a muscle-shirt T-shirt before I realized what was going
on, and I raised a ruckus in a small town market one day.) When travelling in Turkey, do not flaunt your obvious womanly attributes as
this is insulting to them. In rural (particularly eastern) turkey it
is advisable to be soberly clad. In the hot weather avoid the temptation
to go bra-less under a sleeveless top.
When visiting a mosque in Turkey, you might gain entrance without
covering your head with a scarf or veil, but do it anyway as a sign of
respect. If you travel in the heavily touristy areas of Turkey - just about anything
goes. I've seen everything from mini skirts to completely covered. As
you travel farther east (past Pamukale or Cappadocia) the more conservative
the area. I would recommend longer skirts and/or pants. In Istanbul, anything goes from mini-skirts to platform shoes. However, in
rural Turkey, women tend to dress much more modestly. They wear long skirts,
salvar (baggy trousers) and cotton headscarves. In the more religious
towns, many women wear long overcoats (regardless of the weather) in order
to hide every aspect of the female figure. It makes sense, then, that
women travellers who try to adapt their own wardrobe to suit the customs,
will be less conspicuous. There are plenty of opportunities to buy modest,
cool cotton clothing in the Turkish markets. Trousers! Yes Turkey can be very modern in Istanbul and some of the resort
towns. But all things considered, it's best to remember it is a muslim
country. Turkish women in the hinterlands wear trousers. I didn't pack
a skirt or dress and never felt the lack of one. I am a Turkish woman, living and working in Istanbul. I've lived in and
been to many different countries, including the US and I can easily say
that anywhere in the world there are places where you need to be careful
with your clothing. But it'd be wrong to generalize these types of ideas
as a whole. I, as a Turkish woman, never wear those so called ankle long
skirts or scarves to cover up my shoulders. Especially if you're traveling
to the summer spots like Bodum, Cesme, Antalya etc, you would look really
weird wearing those things. The only time you will need the scarf is for
when you want to enter a mosque, and that's only for respect to the religion.
Turkish people are very friendy and hospitable. And of course, in very
touristic spots you'll get attention because they want to sell souvenir
sorts of things to tourists. My last remark will be about the male approach
in Turkey... Believe me you'll get hit on wherever you go if you are attractive.
That doesn't have anything to do with the country you are in or whether
you're wearing a tank top. I hope you'll enjoy Turkey and get rid of the
stereotypes in your head! |
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